saiya

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i want 2 only...but i already now....mission complete...

Posted on 28/12/2011 01:50:41

aishafa

Post: 3

hubby ckp 2 dh cukup tp klu bleh sy nk lebih,at least 3 or 4. skrg ada 1 girl (nk msk 5 thn) n 1 org lg tunggu kuar je bln 2 2012, hrp dpt boy plak..

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Posted on 22/12/2011 16:38:44

wmn8654

Post: 2

alhamdulillah, dah ada 2 hero & 1 princess... klu ada rezeki,insyaAllah...

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Posted on 05/12/2011 10:26:18

MUMMYBASYAR

Post: 1

im planned about two,but if He gives more,ill accept..now im happy with this one...

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Posted on 02/12/2011 09:41:38

NORADILAH

Post: 11

i have one child now. i prefer 2 child only.

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Posted on 30/11/2011 17:00:35

lynnhan

Post: 1

I have 3 children now,6 year old girl,5 year old boy & 4 mths baby girl.

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Posted on 23/11/2011 14:49:41

SHIMASHAM

Post: 2

I HAVE TWO CHILDREN, BOY 4 YRS N GIRL 2 YRS. 7/2012 I WILL GET MY SON THE THIRD .. YEAH :-)

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Posted on 18/11/2011 16:02:10

ieera

Post: 13

saya ada sepasang anak.. yg 1st boy dah 3thn lebih.. yg 2nd 1th lebih.. alhamdulillah...

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Posted on 17/11/2011 12:07:31

coconcici

Post: 2

....i already have 2 sweetheart. 2 girl, ...and coming soon due on april 2012
hope can get bby boy...

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Posted on 30/10/2011 20:49:51

CSTAN17

Post: 1

I have twin sons.

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Posted on 28/10/2011 17:00:10

roziatiariff

Post: 1

i have 1 for this moment...my target is 3, then tutup kedai after that

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Posted on 28/10/2011 13:53:50

Arisa_80

Post: 2

alhamdulillah setakat ni dah ada 2 org anak,dua2 perempuan..insyallah nak tambah lagi,sekurang-kurangnya lagi 2org..nak lelaki lak..insyallah.

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Posted on 26/10/2011 07:44:08

umipijul

Post: 5

Sekurang2nya ada 4 org (mengikut kemampuan)saya ada seorang anak lelaki berumur 3 tahun.. InsyaAllah tahun dpn akn menambah seoarang lagi.. smoga dpt anak perempuan plak.. ada sesiapa bole bg tips ke? :-)

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Posted on 19/10/2011 11:08:44

QasehQaisara08

Post: 1

for this moment..a pair kids..Shahrin(5) & Nur Aina Qaisara(3)..hopefully, coming soon..

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Posted on 17/10/2011 21:40:24

heiroljah

Post: 7

saya ada dua anak ...Alhamdulillah.dan berkemungkinan dangan izinNya masih lagi lelaki.team sepak takrawlah lepas ni!

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Posted on 09/10/2011 19:35:52

choopingping

Post: 1

only one at the moment...

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Posted on 09/10/2011 15:20:44

Nyeza

Post: 4

now I only have one son and I hope in future I will have a daughter, this is my first son his name amirrul

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Posted on 30/09/2011 19:13:13

AzyMazyah

Post: 1

i want to have 5...3 girls and 2 boys. Now, i have 1 boy, 1 year 4 month already.

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Posted on 20/09/2011 17:14:42

NazriNiey

Post: 1

i have 2 girls & 2 pairs......enough alrdy...

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Posted on 14/09/2011 17:32:54

zihan36

Post: 1

Saya ada 2 org anak lahir pada tahun yg sama. Seorang pada awal bulan januari & seorang lagi pada pertengahan bulan disember.

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Posted on 08/09/2011 23:54:57

michelle_ooi123

Post: 5

i hv 2 children.
1 boy n 1 girl.
both also born in aug.

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Posted on 07/09/2011 10:26:45

aydemay

Post: 2

i've 2 daughters. plan to get baby boy. should any one can share the ecet how to get baby boy??

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Posted on 02/09/2011 18:06:06

Sc_Loh

Post: 1

At least two is better just one. This is b'coz let your child had another close relationship people around this world when both parents is no more with him/her.

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Posted on 02/09/2011 13:48:01

ezazreena

Post: 8

even cost of living nowadays are very high..2 me if we plan to have more kids doesn't matter s long s we can managed our money properly..budgeting is more important..we need to differentiate btwn necessities n wants..give more priorities on necessities first then if hve extra money then we cn fulfill our wants..n insurance also main n important roles in our life...it can helps us in the future...

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Posted on 22/08/2011 13:31:52

amynorul

Post: 3

I DESIRE TO GET 4 CHIL, BUT THINKING LIFE COST THAT ON THE RISE.

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Posted on 22/08/2011 10:58:52

amynorul

Post: 3

nothing to post can get the point ?

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Posted on 22/08/2011 10:54:51

amynorul

Post: 3

i have a baby girl now.

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Posted on 22/08/2011 10:47:55

NurHanisSufiya

Post: 5

i have one bb girl, delivered on 25 April 2011.. plan to have two child but in next 2 or 3 years la...

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Posted on 18/08/2011 15:27:07

ezazreena

Post: 8

my hubby n i will planning to hve 5 kids..so another 2 in the future..

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Posted on 11/08/2011 13:49:44

ezazreena

Post: 8

i have 2 kids + another 1 nx yr..
1 boy on dec will b 5 yrs
1 gurl on oct 2 yrs
+ 1 due on feb 4

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Posted on 11/08/2011 13:40:55

hasmiyatun

Post: 13

I have 3 kids
2 boy
1 baby girl
i love them very much
this 3 kid make me happy,
i would like to have 4 ...wait...for the next

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Posted on 09/08/2011 09:30:22

FIZNA

Post: 2

I HAVE BABY BOY NAMED ADAM DANISH RIZQIN......I LUV MY SON VERY MUCH...

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Posted on 04/08/2011 11:55:15

MEELAH

Post: 2

Hello.,

I have 3 child now., oww amazing soon new born baby on Dec...insyallah..I wonder have 1 in my life now 3+..alhamdullilah, kita merancang Allah yang tentukan..Amin.. Syukur..Ini lah Dunia & Akhiratku..

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Posted on 21/07/2011 15:45:18

limfanny

Post: 4

I just be mummy.... I got 1 baby boy.

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Posted on 20/07/2011 18:54:53

LILYTIO

Post: 3

I belum ada BABY lagi arrr........
so sad........
I wish to have a baby BOY, but my husband wish to have baby GIRL....!
Finally, i wish to have BABY KEMBAR la, BABY BOY & GIRL.....! CHEERS...!!!

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Posted on 12/07/2011 15:44:14

serooja

Post: 1

i have 1 hero.

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Posted on 10/07/2011 02:07:51

ginvin

Post: 1

i have one daughter, going to be 2 yo very soon!

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Posted on 18/06/2011 14:44:17

hasizafi

Post: 3

NOW I HAVE ONE BABY GIRL....

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Posted on 10/06/2011 17:33:20

michellesiaw

Post: 1

I have 4 children , 3 boys and 1 girl. Cheers!

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Posted on 09/06/2011 12:57:50

NORAHANIS

Post: 2

Already have 3 wonderful kids.. 1 girl n 2 boys p/s i still want get more children..

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Posted on 09/06/2011 11:46:39

chiew1002

Post: 3

i have 1 children now~~~~
Baby until today only 19th days~~~For me I plan have 2 children is enough~~

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Posted on 07/06/2011 14:43:06

raudanila

Post: 1

Hi & Salam to all..

i have 3 wonderful kiddos and currently expecting my 4th, having them all is the greatest gift in my life, and i guess i shall set for more!

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Posted on 06/06/2011 11:31:16

min6060

Post: 1

I have one baby boy ^_^

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Posted on 06/06/2011 11:17:03

mylai

Post: 2

I'm going to have my first baby boy in 3 months time. I wish I'll have a girl in the year of horse - 3years later. Cheers,

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Posted on 05/06/2011 16:25:51

fishbaby

Post: 1

I have a daughter now...I am a new mother.

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Posted on 03/06/2011 10:50:28

feeishun

Post: 2

oh! I got two kids now! and is enough for me! coz I am no longer young! If I am still young, I intend to have 4 kids, but too bad...so two is enough for me now! Thank GOD!

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Posted on 02/06/2011 09:21:20

RAINNE

Post: 1

NOW I HAVE 1 BABY GIRL....HOPE NEXT YEAR TAKE MORE BABY BOY!!!

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Posted on 28/05/2011 21:59:23

jessieyew

Post: 3

i havent start plan to prenant.

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Posted on 28/05/2011 18:29:17

hidayah81

Post: 3

I already have 2 boy,wish to have 4 kids but enough for 3 because all my kids is IUGR baby,will deliver on sept 2011 for the 3rd...Hopefully it could be a girl..i'allah..

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Posted on 28/05/2011 00:30:36

sumijelly

Post: 2

Seronok tengok rakan2 yang ada sepasang...

ada lelaki dan perempuan... sekarang sumi tengah mengandung anak ke 4..dan jantina masih tak tahu..

kalu la kali ni lahir perempuan, mesti seronok..sbb dpt gak bunger...

tapi kalu lahir lelaki tak mengapa.. makin meriah la rumah melayan kerenah askar2 pula..hehehe

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Posted on 26/05/2011 10:53:54

Karenng79

Post: 2

Previously I thought to have 3 but now I think 2 is the perfect. Cheers...

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Posted on 26/05/2011 08:49:20

LAIIM

Post: 1

now i have 1 child.i was thinking to have 4 more.is it too much?

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Posted on 25/05/2011 00:42:44

mamaechah

Post: 9

I want to have 4.. 2 boys & 2 girls. But now only have 1 girl..difficult to conceive after miscarriage..

This is my girl.. Nur Ain Qistina

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Posted on 18/05/2011 16:40:30

Makngah

Post: 5

I wish to hav 2 boys and 2 girls. 4 is enough for my family :)

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Posted on 18/05/2011 11:22:00

siangaling

Post: 1

I wish to have three children. Currently i have two boys

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Posted on 18/05/2011 08:05:59

maefang12

Post: 4

I have one child...not planning for another one at the moment.. =)

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Posted on 17/05/2011 19:39:12

TANJUNG

Post: 1

I have 3 children, 2 girls n 1 boy. The last one about 4 months and very chubby. I luv my baby. It enough 4 me

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Posted on 17/05/2011 19:12:03

SMC

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1

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Posted on 16/05/2011 15:46:14

chaiing

Post: 3

now i have 1 boy 2 girl, another 1 boy will give birth on sep 2011

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Posted on 16/05/2011 14:45:31

kooitjun

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2

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Posted on 15/05/2011 18:43:21

kathyyip79

Post: 1

A pair of boy and girl would be perfect... Half completed with a Tiger Boy.

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Posted on 15/05/2011 18:38:06

NGHUISUN

Post: 2

only 1 so far..

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Posted on 15/05/2011 16:33:01

cindy.ho

Post: 2

Only precious one baby boy... Just 2 Mths :)

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Posted on 15/05/2011 07:41:21

nikkichow

Post: 1

i have one girl n one boy.the baby boy jz born on last month only

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Posted on 14/05/2011 22:28:28

poohbear1983

Post: 3

hi,i plan to have at least 2 children...

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Posted on 13/05/2011 23:43:21

ROHAINIZA

Post: 6

wanna have about 4 children...but now,still waiting the first one come in my life

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Posted on 13/05/2011 22:40:04

eureka

Post: 1

i have one baby..baby boy... this is my baby....

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Posted on 13/05/2011 19:35:47

laiyarlara

Post: 1

i just gave birth to a baby boy 3weeks ago via c-sect. not sure if it's a good idea to be pregnant again after this. doctors suggest to wait at least 2yrs before i should get pregnant again, and considering my age, a later pregnancy might be very risky. well, who knows?

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Posted on 13/05/2011 17:38:40

GJL

Post: 6

i have a little naughty girl, minimum should be 3 kids, am planning for the next one now....

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Posted on 13/05/2011 16:43:16

jujune

Post: 2

i have a baby girl now....2nd baby girl will coming soon by next month~ i think 3-4 kids is perfect for me

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Posted on 13/05/2011 16:34:41

idaraihana

Post: 3

i have 1 girl....another one coming soon.....okt 2011

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Posted on 13/05/2011 16:19:45

sherllykwan

Post: 1

I've got one baby girl, intend to have maximum two :)

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Posted on 13/05/2011 15:32:39

qasehauleya

Post: 12

huhuhu....i already have 3 sweetheart. 2 girl, 1 boy....and coming soon due on Jul2011. actually im very proud coz have many children.....and i luv my kids...."Semoga Menjadi Anak2 yg Soleh & Solehah. Amin""""

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Posted on 13/05/2011 14:34:02

sherlee

Post: 1

I got 2 children now ... youngest just born on 2 weeks ago ... :)

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Posted on 13/05/2011 11:26:00

celine6801

Post: 1

now i have one gal & another one coming soon..

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Posted on 12/05/2011 18:59:10

feishyan

Post: 1

I am 6 month pregnant. Is my 1st child, and i am very excited.

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Posted on 12/05/2011 18:03:45

yee_chai

Post: 1

Preferred 2 children. now i m pregnant, is a baby girl, hope that can have a boy in future.

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Posted on 12/05/2011 16:38:53

Chinooi

Post: 1

Hi, I have one daughter and i coming soon...

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Posted on 12/05/2011 15:35:12

brendachiang

Post: 1

i have 1 baby boy 3 years old and pregnant with another baby boy too.

2 enough for me.

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Posted on 12/05/2011 10:58:01

mamafaihaa

Post: 6

I got 2 cuty baby gals (oldest 6 yrs & youngest 1 1/2 yrs)...& new one is otw..
hope it will boy..^.^

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Posted on 12/05/2011 10:27:26

Zaileezaz

Post: 1

congrats to all parents. i have 3 kids, 2 boys + 1 girl. wanted to stop at 2 but figured that it the more the merrier during our old age though...anyone can share how it slike to have more than 4 kids ?...

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Posted on 11/05/2011 20:23:40

JASLINGCHIEW

Post: 1

Now i have a boy and another one coming soon :)

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Posted on 11/05/2011 15:23:54

Beh

Post: 6

How's we can plan to get a Baby Boy or Girl

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Posted on 09/05/2011 11:48:05

celextra

Post: 1

3 enough for me .

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Posted on 07/05/2011 16:07:09

yoyoyeo

Post: 4

i have a boy now n pregnant with 2nd bb.
2 enough for me :)

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Posted on 07/05/2011 11:42:43

PaoWei

Post: 1

I am expecting my first child now~ Hopefully a daughter next~ 3 is the max for us~ ^^

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Posted on 07/05/2011 11:27:08

FongFong

Post: 2

I have a daughter now, pregnant with another bb boy...2 is enough for me..

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Posted on 07/05/2011 10:55:31

joycelim5566

Post: 1

i have 2 cute daughter, i m intend to have 3 kids...

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Posted on 07/05/2011 08:00:38

Mahanum

Post: 1

I just deliver bb girl a week ago and i already have 1 son...
So for the time being 2 is enough for me.

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Posted on 07/05/2011 01:52:14

sumijelly

Post: 2

I have 3 son
-Danial (2004)
- Iskandar (2007)
- Zulfadhli (2009)

and now i'm currently pregnant for 4th child. And hope this time will have some flower! hehehe

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Posted on 06/05/2011 16:55:44

amycheah

Post: 2

I've one lil girl now...

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Posted on 29/04/2011 17:20:39

Milk

Post: 1

Now i already have one boy, he just 7 months, then now me also preganant already, hope that is girl

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Posted on 20/04/2011 12:25:08

areenm

Post: 2

hi all.. right now i hav 3 cute daughters.. plan to add 4 more.. hopefully... the more the merrier.. no matter what gender..

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Posted on 12/04/2011 16:35:58

renhui

Post: 1

Hope to get 4 baby, two boys, two girls. Now have one girl and two boys.

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Posted on 04/04/2011 12:59:16

akooza

Post: 1

wish 2 hv at least 5 children..now,my boy is 1 year old..planning to have baby girl~my wish :D

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Posted on 29/03/2011 16:13:02

mamasygaina

Post: 2

i wish 2 hv at least 4 children..coz i really dream of a big family..now i already had 1 little sweetie gurL,Nur Aina Batrisya,1yr old..

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Posted on 07/02/2011 00:41:22

yeemun2211

Post: 1

i intend to have 2 children hopefully can get 1 boy n 1 girl now i have 1 baby boy 3 months 2 weeks.....

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Posted on 13/01/2011 14:21:22

yihwei

Post: 5

I intend to have at least 2 kids. Now I have a baby gal in 23-mth-old. And I am now workhard for my 2nd baby... wish I can success...

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Posted on 10/01/2011 12:59:30

faliq

Post: 1

i always wanted a boy and a girl. Nw, i already hv a boy.. so, it's a girl after this.. hihi =p

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Posted on 31/12/2010 13:13:16

miyiko

Post: 1

i have 1 baby gal~ 11months now~

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Posted on 29/11/2010 23:32:18

lali73

Post: 1

i have 3 cute sons. first one is 8 years, 2nd one is 5 years and 3rd one is 7 months old. Enough for me.

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Posted on 16/09/2010 23:30:57

Dayangcitra

Post: 1

I have 2 children,one boy,3 and half years old and 1 girl,9 months.I think that enough.I facing difficulty during my pregnancy with high bp and diabetes.So no more..:)

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Posted on 31/08/2010 23:12:51

GeorginaLiew

Post: 10

“Hi, I’m Georgina, CareLine Supervisor / Mum from Danone Dumex.

I have always wanted 2 kids…a boy and a girl. God has answered my prayer as I have 2 beautiful children; a girl, 17 years old and a boy, 9 years old.
I cherish the quality time I spend with them. Watching them blossom and grow up makes me so very proud. Don’t just be a mother to your children, be a friend as well.”

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Posted on 05/08/2010 12:31:30

linaleesya

Post: 1

i always wanted a girl and 2 boys. Nw, i already hv a girl.. so, it's 2 boys after this.. hihi =p

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Posted on 23/03/2010 13:59:01

ayip

Post: 1

i have 4 kids.3 daughter and 1 son.i think no more children again.

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Posted on 16/03/2010 19:07:03

lieysha

Post: 1

i have 2 boy & hope for a baby girl soon

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Posted on 19/01/2010 11:00:36

twindaddy

Post: 1

i hv an identical twins, boys but God knows what the future lies ahead!!

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Posted on 28/12/2009 20:06:15

sannee50

Post: 2

I hv 1 baby gal. 10moths....nice to meet u all caring mummies.

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Posted on 22/10/2009 10:28:21

afriza

Post: 2

I have 2 daughter.1st 3 year old & 2nd 10 month...i hope i have a baby boy after this...

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Posted on 12/10/2009 13:18:56

angielau85

Post: 4

wo shuai ma?haha....

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Posted on 23/09/2009 09:26:35

angielau85

Post: 4

1 years old.

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Posted on 23/09/2009 09:24:38

angielau85

Post: 4

4 years old....

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Posted on 23/09/2009 09:23:18

angielau85

Post: 4

i have 2baby boy !

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Posted on 23/09/2009 09:19:49

oja0121

Post: 1

i've have 8yr boy, 6yr & 2yr girls and expecting another boy in 3 weeks ... 2 boys & 2 girls is enough ...

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Posted on 27/07/2009 13:31:24

milk_winnie

Post: 1

hi all....i have a 23 mths old son.wish after 2 years have a baby girl.....after that wish got 2 baby again.....hehehe.....i wish got like 2 boy 2 girl that enough for me....this my son dannel....

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Posted on 19/07/2009 09:03:46

NSS

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i hv a 4 mths old daugther.wish after two year hv another baby boy,1 girl 1 boy that enough for me.

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Posted on 15/07/2009 14:46:06

shida_yen

Post: 1

i prefer to have at least 3, but at my age now, I don't think i'm able to have 3. Currently, i have a 3 yrs old daughter, and thinking to add one next year.

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Posted on 14/07/2009 13:37:18

raziahrafaae

Post: 1

i prefer to have 5 ... hu hu ... but its all depends on our financial ... for me more kids will make our family more cheer !!

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Posted on 29/06/2009 09:57:17

hotmomma83

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hi, i have 2 daughters with age 5yrs n 4 yrs, and 2yrs old son. wish to have another baby boy, but i already miscariage on 8th june tis year. wat to say...

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Posted on 25/06/2009 07:59:00

yylee1

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2 is the perfect number for me. If our financial getting better, might consider 3rd one. But then I will be over 40s.

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Posted on 10/06/2009 09:30:12

momagain3

Post: 1

Actually you can never know or plan unless u'r protected. I have a 3 yr old DD and 18 mth DS. Unexpected pregnancy and now 7 wks pregnant. I think 3 would be prefect but some ppl said 4 is the perfect number.

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Posted on 09/06/2009 10:15:51

JOAN_LING

Post: 1

i have two boys now....i n my hubby plan to have 3 is enuf. planning for a girl. hopefully is 2 year later!

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Posted on 04/06/2009 15:43:40

Pat1726

Post: 6

i have a 4 mths old son. Wish to have a baby girl but my husband said is enough..sob sob

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Posted on 03/06/2009 14:15:00

Pat1726

Post: 6

i have a 4 mths old son. Wish to have a baby girl but my husband said is enough..sob sob

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Posted on 03/06/2009 14:14:58

Pat1726

Post: 6

i have a 4 mths old son. Wish to have a baby girl but my husband said is enough..sob sob

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Posted on 03/06/2009 14:14:57

Pat1726

Post: 6

i have a 4 mths old son. Wish to have a bay girl but my husband said is enough..sob sob

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Posted on 03/06/2009 14:14:44

Pat1726

Post: 6

i have a 4 mths old son. Wish to have a bay girl but my husband said is enough..sob sob

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Posted on 03/06/2009 14:14:40

Pat1726

Post: 6

i have a 4 mths old son. Wish to have a bay girl but my husband said is enough..sob sob

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Posted on 03/06/2009 14:14:39

Dyas

Post: 4

now i have cute daughter.. name is zara. Planning for boy after this but with busy life, dun thk i am ready. with economc down, maybe next year.. i thk 3 is enuf.

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Posted on 22/05/2009 08:58:02

Vikki

Post: 2

I'm currently pregnant, and this my first baby boy. Wish to have 2 babies too. Hopefully 2 years later I'll have my baby girl!

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Posted on 14/05/2009 18:57:11

CikMala

Post: 1

my hubby planning to have 6 chidren, now have 1 cute daughter and now i am 18 wk pregnant

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Posted on 10/05/2009 21:17:41

aisya

Post: 1

I and my hubby plan have 5 children. now i have 3 cute daugters

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Posted on 21/04/2009 09:51:51

saraizz

Post: 4

Hi..now i have 2 cute daughters. i still want baby..but my husband said it was enough..i said no...at least 2 more baby..maybe after this got baby boy...

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Posted on 25/02/2009 22:55:43

ASMA001

Post: 1

Hai, i'am going to deliver the third baby next month..all were sons.i'm still studying ...fill a bit stress.. should i planned??hope to have at least another 6 after finish studying...if can la...

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Posted on 23/02/2009 09:22:35

Lynne

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Hi there all, thumb up for umidee. its not easy to have so many baby nowadays. Well, at 1st thinking to have 2 baby 1 girl and 1 boy, but i have 2 girl now so hopefully 3rd will be a boy..but not yet pregnant but soon....

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Posted on 20/02/2009 21:06:16

umiDee

Post: 2

Hi all..based on what u guys wrote about how many kids u guys wanted, I smile to myself! Just to share with all of u guys, I am a mother of 5 now, eldest one is my daughter and 4 boys ages between 3+ to 10+..and now, I am expecting my 6th baby this coming August. No matter what gender my baby will be, this will be my very LAST pregnancy. I kept expecting baby girl during previous pregnancy and hopefully this one will be a baby girl! Pray for me...sob..sob..

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Posted on 12/02/2009 10:28:52

JuneEng

Post: 2

Currently, I have 2 girls, one is 2 and half year, one is 8 month, think that is enough for me, Too busy to take care then. Don't think will have another one again. If want, will take a few year lah...If I still can cope. Hi Hi

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Posted on 11/02/2009 10:30:30

kacenka78

Post: 1

i hv 2 gals now. but i plan to hv twins.. emm wonder is there a miracle 4 it? it will be wonderful if the twins is 1 gal and 1 boy. the more is happier [url=http://www.dumex.com.my][img]http://www.dumex.com.my/members/tickers/103419/ticker4.png[/img][/url] http://www.dumex.com.my/members/tickers/103421/ticker1.png

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Posted on 10/06/2008 06:25:09

johnogroats

Post: 1

I have 2 children. And I pregnant again with a pair of twins... I think 4 children is more than enough... Can't wait to see my twins.

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Posted on 03/06/2008 07:22:13

devan55

Post: 38

my hubby n i decide to have 4 children...

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Posted on 01/06/2008 16:10:11

kriseee

Post: 12

I want 3 children... but hubby said 2 enough. Now i hv 1 boy. He will be 1 yr old 2moro (5 dec). will get 2nd one when he's 2 or 3 yrs old. But i desire to hv twins.. coz my mum is twins oh... those wif twins.. share wif me ur xperience pls...

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Posted on 04/12/2006 07:13:55

birgitte82

Post: 1

Actually i planning only for 1 baby,really no confidence to hv 2nd one .Currently my boy was 4 years old.feeling that \"HE IS TOO LONELY!!!!!! no matter how i was planning for another...i know that's not easy for me. .... I love him and he asking me to have 2 babies.....

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Posted on 01/12/2006 10:41:32

nicogirl

Post: 41

I'm planning to have 4! 2 bb girl & 2 bb boy But i guess i'm not that superb.

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Posted on 30/10/2006 11:18:01

Alyaqistina

Post: 2

hi,i have one,my little angel,she is just two mounths old.i do want one more but when?i really don't know

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Posted on 19/10/2006 05:39:02

lyk001

Post: 50

hahaa, this thread is alive again! Think I voted before here that I want 3 kids. With each passing day, month...year :shock: it seems like a dream. It's like not enuf time for my 2 beautiful children as it is now.

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Posted on 15/09/2006 06:15:18

aslechta

Post: 151

2 for me is enough, currently only 1 boy. so planning for another ger ger..but sometime when i c my friends one (she got 2) really got no confidence to hv 2nd one.

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Posted on 15/09/2006 02:30:04

YEWSIEWSEE

Post: 7

Were are currently pregnant with baby number 6

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Posted on 15/09/2006 01:56:31

flam1975

Post: 155

I wanna have 4. But due to my narrow birth canal, i cant have any natural birth. so max for me is 3 kids cuz all will be c-section Im so sad, i want to try for the 4th one, but gynae says it might be dangerous. sob sob http://www.youngnutrition.net/member/tickers/40669/ticker2.png

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Posted on 23/08/2006 08:41:57

ivann04

Post: 46

I have one now but want 3 in total

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Posted on 07/08/2006 09:33:27

an7175

Post: 6

more kids makes u less attractivefor me two kids is about enough already, you must have more energy to have more than 2.. also, the more kids u have the harder it is for mommies to look good... http://www.youngnutrition.net/member/tickers/18869/ticker2.png http://www.youngnutrition.net/member/tickers/18871/ticker2.png

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Posted on 07/08/2006 02:03:37

Laurelin

Post: 7

I only want to have 2 children but taking care of one is enough for me. It's hard to care of a 9-month-old baby but I'm very happy when being mum

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Posted on 10/07/2006 04:37:45

ivann04

Post: 46

i would like 3 eventually i have 1 now

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Posted on 15/06/2006 06:41:32

tiffandparker

Post: 2

Re: qiqimum, hi! ~ happy ttc-ing! ~

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Posted on 15/06/2006 05:19:16

sugarjulia

Post: 74

I wish to have 3 children. Planning for second one now. Wish me luck.

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Posted on 14/06/2006 23:35:47

tiffandparker

Post: 2

hi all! i'm new here.. now bac to the topic.. hm, how many? i've got 3 beautiful kiddos..all unplanned. 4th one, u say? maybe not. its pretty hectic with 3 & i personally feel its expensive bringin' up a child/ren in singapore.

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Posted on 14/06/2006 21:29:31

emilywpn

Post: 1

children ....for me, two is enough currently because financial not allowed. If accidently have 3rd .... er....er.....

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Posted on 25/05/2006 05:16:18

sunshinealexa

Post: 16

one is enough for me

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Posted on 13/04/2006 15:04:58

mycha526

Post: 2

I have one and we're planning on one more.

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Posted on 01/04/2006 07:51:29

summer1328

Post: 23

2 kids r enough Hi all, im a young mom wif a kid age 2 yr 4 mths. My hubby and i thought of havin a baby gal (hopefully) in the comin year. By the time our boy will alrd be 3 plus so hopefully he can adjust of havin another member in the family. Guess 2 are enough for mi ..

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Posted on 01/04/2006 07:19:39

RuiHan8

Post: 5

..for mi 2 is enough too.. Now my current boy is my 1st child, hope to have another one by this year.. but so sad.. financial not allowed!!!

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Posted on 13/01/2006 14:34:28

RuiHan8

Post: 5

for mi 2 is enough too.. Now my current boy is my 1st child, hope to have another one by this year.. but so sad.. financial not allowed!!!

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Posted on 13/01/2006 14:34:04

RuiHan8

Post: 5

for mi 2 is enough too.. Now my current boy is my 1st child, hope to have another one by this year.. but so sad.. financial not allowed!!!

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Posted on 13/01/2006 14:33:41

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Hi Jaslyn, it's not cheap to have kids now. In order to have more children, family support plays a major role. For me, 2 is enough.

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Posted on 25/10/2005 01:25:07

jessiewan

Post: 13

how many childrenI just gave birth to my #3 2 weeks ago.My eldest is a girl and she is 11 yrs old,my #2 is a boy and he is going to be 6 yrs old in 2 months and #3 is a boy too.I wanted to have #4 haha but being that I m not young anymore,I wouldnt want #4 to have a big age gap like his siblings.I would like to hear from mommy who has more kids to get some 'encouragement' as my mom thinks I m crazy,even she never helped me with my kids at all.

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Posted on 16/10/2005 12:09:13

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:42:51

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:42:46

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:42:38

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:42:06

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:41:59

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:41:50

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:41:37

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:41:26

neeracha

Post: 10

Guess two is enough for me.

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Posted on 30/08/2005 14:41:17

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Hi jancho, I envy your desire for a 3rd child. It's really a tough and expensive decision to go for a third esp when you have a girl and boy already. However, if you have strong family support, it's good to have another child.

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Posted on 29/07/2005 00:45:47

lyk001

Post: 50

Hi, I have a boy and gal (3 and 2 yrs). 'Balanced' but would love to have a third one. But mental (and medical! ) note to be before I'm 35 years old. It's the energy level to cope and play with them as they grow. Wish me luck...after taking into consideration for logistics, financial, etc!

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Posted on 28/07/2005 05:20:43

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Hi yenfoon, congrats on a complete family - 1 girl and 1 boy. Now is to bring them up and that's the toughest and expensive part, I feel. Giving birth is only that little while, but bringing them up is really no joke. Night feeds, injections, teething problems and all the normal cough and flu. Following on is the next stage of schooling and stress. My son is 5. Next year, we will have to register him for P1 and that's when stress will come in. My girl is 8 months old, so it's just the normal tee

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Posted on 27/07/2005 00:33:03

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Helo,I m back!My bb boy now 3months oredi!So tired frm my bb boy birth until now,havnt get enough sleep at nite!Very,very tired!!!!NOW,I can imagine how tired moms with 2 or 3 children,especialy moms work outside...I m fulltime housewife,I also cant imagine how tired with 2 children and have to do all the housework by myself....Enough,enough lor!2 children 1 boy 1 girl..3children??No,No lor!

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Posted on 26/07/2005 13:21:13

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Hi Irene, confinement now is not as strict as before. However, try to observe certain \"rules\" like lying down in bed to rest as much as possible and eating your food when it's hot. \"Cooling\" and cold food like water melon, oranges and cabbage best to avoid.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 05:08:17

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Hi mummum, I ate a lot of fish as well as soup made with threadfin fish bones for milk. The bm is really creamy when using threadfin fish. My daughter loves it so much that she can't stop. Once a while, my mum will make the soup and she enjoys it.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 05:02:20

junjun

Post: 331

Hi Irene, steam fish with \"mu er\" and some ginger is good too... but I can't remember when can start eat fish during confinement.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 04:09:19

reghurajpj

Post: 346

Hi IRENEC, my mum cooked a few dishes for my confinement, repeated sometimes as I dislike eating traditional confinement food. Most of the time she uses sesame oil to stir fry the chicken or pork and put in few slices of ginger. I am bf, as such can't eat too much ginger. Kailan with fish is nice with lots of pepper. How about chicken with \"mu er\" ? Mu er is supposed to cleanse the body of blood after childbirth.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 01:48:29

thchin1

Post: 4

CONFINEMENT FOODS Hi ladies, Irene here wish to share and hear from ur the experiences. I have 2 boys 4th years & 21mths and will deliver the 3rd bb soon in Oct 2005. May be urs can give me some tips or idea for the new recipie of confinement food. Thanks.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 01:38:14

thchin1

Post: 4

CONFINEMENT FOODS Hi ladies, Irene here wish to share and hear from ur the experiences. I have 2 boys 4th years & 21mths and will deliver the 3rd bb soon in Oct 2005. May be urs can give me some tips or idea for the new recipie of confinement food. Thanks.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 01:37:03

thchin1

Post: 4

CONFINEMENT FOODS Hi ladies, Irene here wish to share and hear from ur the experiences. I have 2 boys 4th years & 21mths and will deliver the 3rd bb soon in Oct 2005. May be urs can give me some tips or idea for the new recipie of confinement food. Thanks.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 01:36:31

thchin1

Post: 4

CONFINEMENT FOODS Hi ladies, Irene here wish to share and hear from ur the experiences. I have 2 boys 4th years & 21mths and will deliver the 3rd bb soon in Oct 2005. May be urs can give me some tips or idea for the new recipie of confinement food. Thanks.

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Posted on 26/07/2005 01:34:27

belinng

Post: 20

Hi Jolene, I'm expressing out 240ml at every 5 hours session. But, I'm in the midst of weaning her to formula, so I just put in 1 ounce of bm into her milk. I thought of giving her a bottle of plain bm once a day, but if I do that, she will not drink the mixed formula. It's been quite a while since I brought my son for his speech therapy sessions because of the clash of timings. Thus I have no choice but to switch my girl to formula. Otherwise I would continue to give her bm until she is 1.

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Posted on 18/07/2005 00:11:10

micpplee13

Post: 10

Janet, Hi Jolene here, I've wean off my boy since his was abt 2 mth, after more than a year, i still hav bit of bm, since during our chit-chat on las friday, dap encourage me to continue to giv bm to my boy i try to express yester is abt a ounce, so should be continue back again to giv him bm. I did ask the pae. he said 1 mum can give bm to 3 kids

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Posted on 17/07/2005 13:27:53

belinng

Post: 20

Hi ladies, this is janet using a temporary ID. Hopefully, my usual ID name can be used again. I've got a friend who delivered 2 children. She doesn't believe in confinement food, but ate a lot of fish because of breast feeding. In fact, she still gives her younger child breast milk twice a day even though he is already 13 months. That's because her in-laws specially buy fresh omega-rich fish for her to eat every week. Lucky woman My girl is drinking 4 ounces of formula with 1 ounce of bm.

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Posted on 17/07/2005 01:58:49

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi zhining, i forgot to add that one too. don't drink water standing up esp those who gave birth naturallly. Also don't squat after giving birth. Before giving birth, can squat because the thigh muscles need to be relaxed so as to allow flexibility during labour. All these not old wives tales but very true

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Posted on 14/07/2005 02:59:07

LAWIVAN

Post: 204

And also dont' drink water while standing (old pple said) - bladder will not be strong, if do that, next time \"hachooo.....urine come out\".

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Posted on 14/07/2005 02:37:54

LAWIVAN

Post: 204

Hi there, During confinement try not to squat, cos when ageing the uterus will drop.

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Posted on 14/07/2005 01:51:50

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi mums, during confinement we must still remember basic hygiene. Like what garfay said, already sweating and leaking breasts, if don't shower sure to smell. Private area must be clean to prevent infection. Of course, take warm shower lah and don't fall sick. But must not carry heavy things even after confinement or the uterus will drop. Lie down in bed to rest our backbone. It sounds like a lot of old wives tales but it is really for our own good.

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Posted on 14/07/2005 01:44:22

janice

Post: 35

Yeah how can not shower one. You are sweating bucket loads, leaking breast and bleeding down there. No shower? Yuck!!! But I think ginger is nessassary to get rid of wind. If you are breastfeeding, just eat normal meal as your family. But drink ginger water. Just boil a few slices of ginger in about half cup of water, once or twice a day will do. It is important not to get chills during confinement that is true, so avoid air-con and shopping. Also don't lift heavy things.

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Posted on 13/07/2005 14:37:18

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi mums, I was always having \"wind\" cough after my 1st child. Always bathing during that month of confinement and not eating enough ginger to get rid of the wind. So I guess my 2nd baby came as a blessing in disguise - gave me a chance to eat tonics and build up my health again. My sister-in-law wore singlets during her confinement and stayed in the air con whole day. Health also weak, always MC. Not all old wives tales are crazy, have to believe in some. After all, it's we who suffer later. If there

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Posted on 12/07/2005 00:55:26

junjun

Post: 331

hiya, nowadays where can dun take bathe one, but bathe in warm water or herbs lah... no direct air-con or fan. I knew it's hot, somemore the weather nowadays can suddenly change. eof mar till jun is horrible hot!!!

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Posted on 12/07/2005 00:47:18

LAWIVAN

Post: 204

hi mummies During my confinement i did bathe with herbal in mid-noon, how can don't bathe at all, weather so hot n eating all heating stuff n tonic made me sweat alots. I drank wine liquor too, but drank after bf n exp. bm. then sleep. I think better follow some of the rules, otherwise in old age here pain there pain. I got a friend imm. after removing all tubes off her she c-section, going bathe n washing hair in hospital n sleep air-con rm, now having 2 she tastes pains here n there, she

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Posted on 12/07/2005 00:36:22

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi daphne, just believe in some old wives tale lor. It does make sense to some degree. For example, after giving birth there is a lot of wind in the body. Not eating cooling food/drinks/fruits is for the benefit of the new mother. After all, it's only 1 month. But don't bathe cannot lah. I like to smell nice feeding my baby. Just take care not to fall sick during confinement or the health will suffer.

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Posted on 11/07/2005 16:04:22

babybang2000

Post: 159

Re: I had terrible backache during my late pregnancy too... but no one in spore willing to massage for me.... so i no choice... just do exercise. As for confinement... I take bal diet & take tonic. rest alot. but wha

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Posted on 11/07/2005 15:56:10

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi garfay, I broke some of the rules during my confinement. I wore long pants and t-shirt during the 1st 2 weeks. Towards the end, I wore shorts and t-shirt. Bathed twice a day because I was perspiring like crazy and smelt terrible - can't afford not to bathe because I was breast feeding and leaking badly due to the engorgement. As for red/black dates tea, I love the taste of it. In fact, I want to drink it again when the weather is cooler (Nov/Dec). But I didn't drink chicken of essence because I hated

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Posted on 11/07/2005 15:17:50

janice

Post: 35

Hi ya all, I think I must have broken all the rules there are for confinement About the red date tea, it was my mom who told me that it is not nessassary :shock: Of cours I listened to her coz I find the drink is horrible. I also didn't wear long sleeves/pants, partly because I gave birth in the hottest month of the yr (May and June). But I am still sticking on to my believe that you should shower everyday, for hygiene purposes. Last time in the old days, clean and hot water is not readily ava

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Posted on 11/07/2005 14:58:33

junjun

Post: 331

Ya... During my last confinement, I found that it's more tough than the 10mths pregnant. But, still try to follow as much as possible. It's very important to take urself during confinement days. Although old folks method has too many to follow, there're some still good to maintain. Like, bath in slight warm water (better if using the water boiled with herbs) during good weather, don't take too long or wash ur hair everyday, if want to do so, must quickily dry it. Take red date drinks instead of water, no c

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Posted on 11/07/2005 03:51:38

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi mums, we must really take care of our bodies during the month of confinement. Some problems won't arise now because we are still young and the body can take it. We need to be healthy in order to take care of the kids. For my 1st pregnancy, I didn't realize the importance. Always getting cough due to too much 'wind' but with 2nd baby, I took care to bathe only when the sun is up and before 6pm. Nights, I wore long pants to sleep and without the air con. Drank a lot of red date tea to replendish the blood

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Posted on 11/07/2005 01:32:08

janice

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Hi garfay, Symptoms won't be out so fast till older for certain people. For me, I didn't care sometimes, I do rinse my leg becos I was so sticky, after confinement, you know what? both of my knee cap so aching and painful especially when I walk up and down the staircase. From there, I really really believe that somehow it will affect our body if we take bath too often during confinement. Alot of wind will go in. Not only that after the confinement lady went off, I clean and wash bottles, wash hands too

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Posted on 11/07/2005 00:28:48

janice

Post: 35

For my confinement I didn't drink 1 drop of alcohol, no Chinese herbs (I was breastfeeding), no chicken essence (I don't want to stay awake all day). I showered everyday. Did not drink red date tea. All I had was balanced diet, and lots of fish. I also bath my kid myself daily. All is well......so far

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Posted on 08/07/2005 16:39:37

leanmei

Post: 408

Hi abmuazha, confinement is really not a big deal nowadays. Unless you are doing it the \"Zoe Tay\" method of not bathing and wearing socks. Hot it may be, I also stayed away from the air-con. The only thing to avoid is cooling food/vegetables like water melon (cabbage), chocolates, ice cream and soft drinks, basically anything cold. I managed to stay away from all these food during my pregnancy and up till my baby was about 5 months old because I was breast feeding her.

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Posted on 08/07/2005 00:36:20

kende76

Post: 27

Hi All I want to have another one. But when think of confinement.. make me think again.. can't stand of all the 'cannot do, cannot eat'.. or malay says 'pantang'!!!!

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Posted on 07/07/2005 06:20:20

salbia

Post: 100

Hi Mei, i agree with u.. but i dun wish to go thru the labour pain and the contraction and stuff like that... sigh.. maybe will try later mayb when my son is a bit older but not too old, mayb when he's abt 1.5- 2 yrs.. btw mow he's 11+ mth, he's turning 1 yr next mth... bring ur bb along this sat if we meet up ok??? june

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Posted on 22/04/2005 00:41:20

junjun

Post: 331

Hi June, me find that 1 is really lonely, I have a friend that only have 1 dd & don't want to have more. Until her dd was 6 yrs and nagging to her she really like to have a brother or sister, then no choice my friend plan to pregnant again! My opinion is if health is not a problem, then 2 or more may be good. When get older, pregnant and take of young baby will getting taugh! Since you are working from home, it shld be alrite to have another one. rgds

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Posted on 21/04/2005 07:24:23

salbia

Post: 100

Hi, i wish to stop at 1 but many ppl tell me that having only 1 child will be veri lonely... i have a son, 11+ mths... Also feeling veri confused whether to have the second one or not.. of cse my hubby wishes to have more children.. june

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Posted on 21/04/2005 06:09:41

annkarin72

Post: 157

Hi, Any preference for boy or girl for your next pregancy? Just saw this interesting chart from motherhood website. Not sure whether it's accurate. Anyone tried using this before? http://www.motherhood.com.sg/tools/gender.asp

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Posted on 21/04/2005 06:04:40

1687217

Post: 15

Re: Hi.. my bb was born on Sept 12, 04. So he is exactly 7 months 1 week old now. Ya, I think 2 yrs is the best gap, but like what some other moms said too, it all depends. So will see...

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Posted on 20/04/2005 09:07:06

BuzzingBee

Post: 7

Re:For me, I wish to have 2 boys and a girl. But, in reality, I wish to have 2 kids(doesn't matter boy or girl). As least, they have companion when dh and me get older.... But, if dh want me to have 3rd one, then, he better wish that he got 'jackpot' to support 3 kids - education, healthcare, food, etc....nowdays it is not easy to give basic things to our kids..everything need and cost money... Jo

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Posted on 20/04/2005 04:11:37

janice

Post: 35

Hi Bee Tin and Leanmei, Well, I prepared my son for his sister's arrival started at the time when I went for pre-natal check up (we would bring him to every check up). My hubby and I would point to him that there is a baby inside of me and show him the ultrasound. As my tummy gets bigger we would tell him to kiss my tummy, meaning that he is kissing his sister. But he does get jeolous occasionally when I carry my gal, he would want me to carry him as well. So what I do is sit on the couch with my gal

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Posted on 19/04/2005 14:48:23

chrisne

Post: 12

Hi Garfay, Did your son jealous when u kiss his sister or even a hug for her ? My son now 1 1/2 yrs, everytime when i carry others people baby he will cry until i have to leave them down. Even i give a hug to his father his also jealous and push me always. But he very funny, Like when he at his baby-sister place, that was a baby younger then him 1 yrs old. Then he dun like the uncle to carry the baby girl, but when the aunty carry the baby he will play with her and call her \"meimei meimei\". Somet

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Posted on 19/04/2005 09:51:45

annkarin72

Post: 157

Re:Hi Mums, I have one boy 3yrs and a 1yr old girl. Exactly 2 yrs apart. I think the best age gap is anywhere under 4yrs. Beyond that they won't be able to play together. My son adores his sister and kisses her all the time from the day she was born. I am a stay-at-home mum, and I can tell you that it is very extremely tiring to look after 2 kids. But I feel proud of the fact that I am the only one who can comfort them, and I am the first one they would run to hug in the

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Posted on 18/04/2005 06:49:51

janice

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Hi Mums, I have one boy 3yrs and a 1yr old girl. Exactly 2 yrs apart. I think the best age gap is anywhere under 4yrs. Beyond that they won't be able to play together. My son adores his sister and kisses her all the time from the day she was born. I am a stay-at-home mum, and I can tell you that it is very extremely tiring to look after 2 kids. But I feel proud of the fact that I am the only one who can comfort them, and I am the first one they would run to hug in the morning. It always brightens up

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Posted on 15/04/2005 03:37:28

junjun

Post: 331

Hi all, may be I can translate what richielin wrote. \"saya mempunyai 2 org anak yang berumur 5 & 9 tahun.mereka jenis hiperaktif : setiap hari selepas balik dr kerja ,penat seharian kat office menyebabkan saya kuat marah kerna mereka terlalu hiperaktif. adakah tip paling mudah untuk mengatasinya.\" >> I had 2 kid, 5 & 9 yrs old. They are hyperactive type, I always scold them after back from work due to the tireness and stress from work each day. Any easy tips to overcome this? H

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Posted on 15/04/2005 02:11:25

pua8898

Post: 12

Re: Hi Yen Foon, So happy for you! Have you delivered? Sherry

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Posted on 14/04/2005 10:35:44

pua8898

Post: 12

Re: Ya, I agree with you that taking care of one is already so tired, I have two somemore. I have one gal (turning 3 yrs old this June) and one boy (just one month plus, born on 10 Mar). My girl is a very active (should be considered

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Posted on 14/04/2005 10:12:10

adriana

Post: 40

Re: Hi richielin, Perhaps you may want to translate what you typed above in English? I believe many moms here doesn't understand Malay.

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Posted on 14/04/2005 08:17:20

soofarng

Post: 1

saya mempunyai 2 org anak yang berumur 5 & 9 tahun.mereka jenis hiperaktif : setiap hari selepas balik dr kerja ,penat seharian kat office menyebabkan saya kuat marah kerna mereka terlalu hiperaktif. adakah tip paling mudah untuk mengatasinya.

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Posted on 14/04/2005 03:33:19

adriana

Post: 40

Re: Hi peanuts, Just sharing here. I think the best age gap would be 2 years. But it all dpds on individual and whthr you are comfortable. Initially b4 I have my son,

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Posted on 14/04/2005 02:42:18

babybang2000

Post: 159

Hello mommies........ I understand sometimes it's really stressful to have our kids tagging along with us whenever we go, especially full time mothers like me. Especially when we bring them out & they are alittle playful at times, a little cranky, sometimes just can't sit still for us to carry them. But then again, if we think of it in another way, when I bring my gal out shopping, visiting, go for gathering, etc, I tell myself, I'm exposing my gal to the surrounding & ppl around her, which is go

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Posted on 14/04/2005 01:02:53

junjun

Post: 331

pingching44, that's a good one and enlighten me then ... that's what those elderly ppl or friends that having 3 more children told me!!! Honestly, want to be a fulltime mother in s'pore is not easy, especially financial problem... may be I will consider that when I having 2 and coming to 3.

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Posted on 13/04/2005 10:42:29

lydianna

Post: 90

here's something i would like to share with you all, FW: The birth order of children Your Clothes: 1st baby: You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as your OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy. 2nd baby : You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible. 3rd baby: Your maternity clothes ARE your regular clothes. Preparing for the Birth: 1st baby: You practice your breathing religiously. 2nd baby: You don't bother because you re

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Posted on 13/04/2005 04:17:41

lydianna

Post: 90

Hi, Mommies, I am a stay at home mom, with three children, 7, 5 and 1 year old, still plan to have 1 more next year, coz wish to give a partner to the 1 year old,but my hb said later. i plan to have 4 when i'm very young, maybe i have 4 bros and sis, tats y. from my experience, 1st child is the hardest to take care, dunno what she wants, dunno why she acts like tat. 2nd child, when you see him repeat what the sis did b4, you'll know, oh, children are like tat. 3rd 1, i am waiting her to repeat an

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Posted on 13/04/2005 04:05:35

kwekll

Post: 55

Re:Hi All, me, before my 15 months son I ever plan to have 4 because it's quite normal in my family (or husband side) to have at least 4. But, after I give birth before CNY last year until now still scare to plan the 2nd child. I'm fulltime working, my mom take of my son and only see him on weekend. I already felt the tired... don't know how to handle with got another one!!! Any then ever since CNY last year, I haven't meet my old classmate (gathering) during CNY as pe

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Posted on 12/04/2005 23:28:48

JuneVenga

Post: 149

hi Jeantan, Thanks for the advice,i guess 2 to 3 years will be just nice.If the 1st child is too young below 2 years it seems difficult for parents to cope with so many things.Its too tired for the mother too.I probably will try to conceive again early next year.Well...well... i think our Singapore Gov will be very happy to know most mummies do not have 1 child policy in their mind.It seems like most of them prefer more than 2 children.i guess it is only the cost of raising a kid that sometimes make us

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Posted on 12/04/2005 09:29:33

junjun

Post: 331

Hi Mamisim, it's advise not to bring baby under 6 months out for shopping for too long at a time. Baby tend to be sensitive to the env and air condition... They might be very excited but end out wake up and crying at night!

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Posted on 12/04/2005 07:52:23

jabez04

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I agree that we should have some time to ourselves. I spent most of my time with my son during the first 6 mths. Slowly I started going out with my gfs once a fortnight. Now that my boy is 2+yrs. I go out more often with my gfs. At least you get to chill out from work and home. It is good. Intend to have at least 3 children if possible. If not, minimum is two. I am planning to try for a 2nd one next year as I intend to travel as much as possible this year before I conceive.

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Posted on 12/04/2005 07:52:12

junjun

Post: 331

Hi All, me, before my 15 months son I ever plan to have 4 because it's quite normal in my family (or husband side) to have at least 4. But, after I give birth before CNY last year until now still scare to plan the 2nd child. I'm fulltime working, my mom take of my son and only see him on weekend. I already felt the tired... don't know how to handle with got another one!!! Any then ever since CNY last year, I haven't meet my old classmate (gathering) during CNY as per usual. Nowadays, if want to go

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Posted on 12/04/2005 07:43:29

feliciatan

Post: 23

Hi Mommies, i agree ! don always leave ur baby at home, should bring her/him around. so there won't get afraid of something there see or touch. i'm the 1st time mum too... i'm not that expert in taking care of my gal as well. Advise & tips from mom to mom it's really a good way to learn from. don be try ur best n make it easy.Here is a good place to learn from mom to mom, who willing to share their experience . i'm planning to haf my 2nd baby this year, so their ages won't be so far from 1-1.

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Posted on 12/04/2005 07:38:54

divinalee

Post: 16

Hi, jeantan when is your baby birth? my bb also 7 months old, is on 6th September 2004. Intend to have another one, two year later! I think this is also a good suggestion!

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Posted on 12/04/2005 07:10:42

1687217

Post: 15

I have one 7 months old bb and planning to have another 2, 3 is the maximum. But my husband seems prefer more. Hi peanuts, my personal point of view, the best gap for the next child is 2 years. Not sure about others.

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Posted on 12/04/2005 06:19:46

JuneVenga

Post: 149

Hi Mamisim, dont because of your one time experience and decide to stop bringing your girl out.She will see and learn less things if u let her stay indoor for too long.I think she is just anxious about the things around her.I have a hard time with my boy too when he was 4 months plus,every time when we go shopping , he will not sleep in his stroller or in my arms even if he is very tired.He will make noise and endure until we reach home then he will sleep well.I started training him by bringing him out soon

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Posted on 12/04/2005 03:36:07

divinalee

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Hi, Now I have one baby girl about 7 months. Before I deliver my baby, I intend to have 4 children for myself but my husband just only want 2 children. After my baby come out, I feel that take care of baby is a very important & need experience & more attention to them. The baby is different by month to month. When my girl about four month, we go for shopping, all the while she very happy & excited. But for the time she need to drink milk, she don't want to latch on my bm. She keep looki

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Posted on 12/04/2005 02:46:32

JuneVenga

Post: 149

My boy is now 8.5 mths old and my husband who loves children seems to be looking forward for the 2nd one.He thinks hard work for a few years and we can relax earlier.By the way what is the best age gap for the 2nd child? I believe mummy of 2 to 3 children out there can advice me a lot.

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Posted on 12/04/2005 02:12:31

feliciatan

Post: 23

HI Mommies, here's the problem again! Yeah! some of my friends also keep complaining me not join for the gathering there oganise too... i feel so sorry & sad for it. What I'm thinking is why not we invite some of them to our house, so our baby could recognise there face & get close with them . train her to sit on a baby chair n having dinner with us .so next time out for gathering at least there is someone she ever seen & she won't get afraid from them. I keep trying invite

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Posted on 12/04/2005 02:07:56

annkarin72

Post: 157

Leanmei, U working full time or stay home? I find it difficult to bring along my bb for gatherings too... she will not sit still for long....so, have to entertain her rather than enjoy the meal or watever... so have to wait till my bb is older, than think abt gathering or can arrange for friends to gather in each others house? Tat way, easier for you!!!

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Posted on 11/04/2005 23:50:37

chrisne

Post: 12

u all so lucky, got people to help. Everytime i go out i have to bring my son together so normally i didn't join any gathering after him come out. But i also planning for 2 child (1 boy and 1 girl), But i no ideal when the 2nd come out. Maybe after 2 yrs.

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Posted on 11/04/2005 09:08:21

annkarin72

Post: 157

Re: Oh, that is what i plan to have too.... a boy and a girl...but I have not start to try for 2nd one yet....

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Posted on 11/04/2005 02:40:34

feliciatan

Post: 23

For me 1 boy & 1 gal is enuf liao..... if both gal or both boy maybe i will negotiate to haf 1 from the opposite sex. At the moment i only haf 1 gal 10 months old, decide to have 1 maybe during this year hahaha... hopefully, is boy this time

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Posted on 11/04/2005 02:07:37

annkarin72

Post: 157

Re: Think i have to learn to do it.... feel that I am feeling abit stressed out already.... with working and taking care of my bb... need to learn unwind more

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Posted on 11/04/2005 01:16:51

adriana

Post: 40

Re:Hi Now I have 2 kids but intend to try for no. 3 next year or probably end of this year. My dh is satisfied with 2 kids actually but I try to talk to him and finally he's ok to try for a third one. Though at times I do hope to have 4 kids. Hehehehe.... I agree that taking care of kids is not an easy task. I still hv my own time like asking my dh or my mom to take care of my kids thn I go out for dinner with my friends etc. I feel

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Posted on 11/04/2005 01:12:10

annkarin72

Post: 157

Re:Hi Now I have 2 kids but intend to try for no. 3 next year or probably end of this year. My dh is satisfied with 2 kids actually but I try to talk to him and finally he's ok to try for a third one. Though at times I do hope to have 4 kids. Hehehehe.... I agree that taking care of kids is not an easy task. I still hv my own time like asking my dh or my mom to take care of my kids thn I go out for dinner with my friends etc. I feel that regardless hw many kids we

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Posted on 11/04/2005 01:06:35

adriana

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Hi Now I have 2 kids but intend to try for no. 3 next year or probably end of this year. My dh is satisfied with 2 kids actually but I try to talk to him and finally he's ok to try for a third one. Though at times I do hope to have 4 kids. Hehehehe.... I agree that taking care of kids is not an easy task. I still hv my own time like asking my dh or my mom to take care of my kids thn I go out for dinner with my friends etc. I feel that regardless hw many kids we have, we still need our own pers

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Posted on 11/04/2005 00:48:22

annkarin72

Post: 157

Yenfoon, I can understand how you feel. I too feel so tired after the whole day of taking care of my daughter...can't imagine how it's like to take care of 2? :shock: Maybe Sherry can tell us how it's like

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Posted on 09/04/2005 15:07:05

pua8898

Post: 12

I have 1 daughter and 1 son in my womb..Will delivering soon,due date on 12/4/05..I think enough liao..But surely my hubby wan 1 more child..U know I think 2children enough liao..Take care of my daughter make me fainted liao..Dunno after delivering next bb son,how can I imagine how to take care of them??Must no more private time for myself How u gals take care of 2children same time??

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Posted on 09/04/2005 14:54:42

pua8898

Post: 12

I have two children now, perhaps in a few years' time, I will try for a 3rd one. Cheers!

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Posted on 09/04/2005 12:27:15

How many Chlidren for you?

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